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Foster & Adoption

Books, networks, and a community that gets it.

Foster and adoptive parenting is its own world. The grief, the joy, the behaviors, the systems — most people who haven't lived it don't fully understand. These are the books and resources that have helped families in our community.

Recommended Reading


  • Maybe Days
  • Wounded Children, Healing Homes
  • Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors
  • Raising Mentally Strong Kids
  • The Body Keeps the Score
  • Parenting from the Inside Out
  • The Whole Life Adoption Book
  • Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control
  • The Connected Child
  • Trauma — The Invisible Epidemic
  • What Happened to You?
  • Raising Good Humans
  • Setting Boundaries That Stick
  • The Peaceful Parenting (R)evolution
  • No-Drama Discipline
  • Keep the Doors Open
  • The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog
  • Touch
  • Reframing Foster Care
  • What Young Children Need You to Know
  • The Whole-Brain Child
  • It Didn’t Start with You
  • The Highly Sensitive
  • Foster the Family

See Also


Want the full WOW Ministries guide on foster and adoption?

It includes:

  • A field-tested book stack with the order to read them in, by season (pre-placement → bumpy first year → long haul)
  • Advocacy contacts, foster-village networks, and where to actually find respite that helps
  • Hard-won mindset shifts for the days when behaviors and the system both cost more than you have

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